My child’s future when I’m gone

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Very often, we as parents are worried about the future of our children and their upbringing. We choose every thing they are exposed to, consciously. We want the best for them in everything. While we work so hard on them, to physically and spiritually protect them, Allah swt presents us a beautiful story to teach us on who we should be focussed working on – OURSELVES.

In surah Kahf, Musa AS follows Khidr AS in order to gain knowledge from him. In one of the instances, Khidr AS builds a broken wall, in a town that didn’t welcome them or fulfill their needs. When asked, Khidr AS says that beneath the wall was the treasure of two orphan boys whose parents were righteous. And so Allah swt wanted to protect their wealth for them for until they attained maturity.

ูˆูŽุฃูŽู…ู‘ูŽุง ุงู„ู’ุฌูุฏูŽุงุฑู ููŽูƒูŽุงู†ูŽ ู„ูุบูู„ูŽู€ู…ูŽูŠู’ู†ู ูŠูŽุชููŠู…ูŽูŠู’ู†ู ููู‰ ุงู„ู’ู…ูŽุฏููŠู†ูŽุฉู ูˆูŽูƒูŽุงู†ูŽ ุชูŽุญู’ุชูŽู‡ู ูƒูŽู†ุฒูŒ ู„ู‘ูŽู‡ูู…ูŽุง ูˆูŽูƒูŽุงู†ูŽ ุฃูŽุจููˆู‡ูู…ูŽุง ุตูŽู€ู„ูุญุงู‹ ููŽุฃูŽุฑูŽุงุฏูŽ ุฑูŽุจู‘ููƒูŽ ุฃูŽู† ูŠูŽุจู’ู„ูุบูŽุข ุฃูŽุดูุฏู‘ูŽู‡ูู…ูŽุง ูˆูŽูŠูŽุณู’ุชูŽุฎู’ุฑูุฌูŽุง ูƒูŽู†ุฒูŽู‡ูู…ูŽุง ุฑูŽุญู’ู…ูŽุฉู‹ ู…ู‘ูู† ุฑู‘ูŽุจู‘ููƒูŽ ูˆูŽู…ูŽุง ููŽุนูŽู„ู’ุชูู‡ู ุนูŽู†ู’ ุฃูŽู…ู’ุฑูู‰ ุฐูŽู„ููƒูŽ ุชูŽุฃู’ูˆููŠู„ู ู…ูŽุง ู„ูŽู…ู’ ุชูŽุณู’ุทูู€ุน ุนู‘ูŽู„ูŽูŠู’ู‡ู ุตูŽุจู’ุฑุงู‹

(82. “And as for the wall, it belonged to two orphan boys in the town; and there was under it a treasure belonging to them; and their father was a righteous man, and your Lord intended that they should attain their age of full strength and take out their treasure as a mercy from your Lord. And I did them not of my own accord. That is the interpretation of those (things) over which you could not be patient.)

We worry so much about our children when Allah swt has granted us the pathway to THEIR successful Akhirah- OUR righteousness.

How much can we handle their affairs while we are just mortal beings but Allah’s safety for them is garanteed even after our death, provided we were righteous.

A righteous person’s offspring will be taken care of, and that the blessing of his worship will extend to them in this world and in the Hereafter. This was stated in the Qur’an and reported in the Sunnah. Sa`id bin Jubayr narrated from Ibn `Abbas: “They were taken care of because their father was a righteous man, although it is not stated that they themselves were righteous.”

Look at the verse again-
ููŽุฃูŽุฑูŽุงุฏูŽ ุฑูŽุจู‘ููƒูŽ ุฃูŽู† ูŠูŽุจู’ู„ูุบูŽุข ุฃูŽุดูุฏู‘ูŽู‡ูู…ูŽุง ูˆูŽูŠูŽุณู’ุชูŽุฎู’ุฑูุฌูŽุง ูƒูŽู†ุฒูŽู‡ูู…ูŽุง”

Here Khidr AS mentions “your Lord intended” and doesn’t even use the word “we” or “I” intended as opposed to his previous explanations. Clearly explaining to us that no one else will ever be able to shape the destiny of any child except Allah swt. Here, will is attributed to Allah, the Exalted, because no one else is able to bring them to the age of full strength and puberty except Allah SWT.

We hear very often that we can’t pour from an empty jug. And hence we need to work on ourselves before we give others.

Work on the self.ย  No matter whom you’re nurturing, how busy you are, how hectic it is; making time for yourself and the growth of YOUR OWN SOUL should be your first priority.

Allah says, โ€œO you who believe! Ward off from yourselves and your families a Fire (Hell) whose fuel is men and stones, over which are (appointed) angels stern (and) severe, who disobey not, (from executing) the Commands they receive from Allah, but do that which they are commanded.โ€ 66:6

Mentioning ‘YOU’, first. ๐Ÿ™‚

When you die as a righteous slave, your child is blessed with Allah’s care long after you’re gone. What else would anyone want for their children?

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About Sameera Hameed

The Meadows. Dawn. And a Pen. From a Soul that longs for its long lost Abode..
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